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5th day!

Just finish chatting on the phone with my boy..
its soon to be 6am. gotta slp liaos, later got to wake up early go mp.

Last day of june sales month.. still need to fight a little bit more for a bigger cheque.
ii can do it de! cos its just a bit more to go.. so dunt give up!! =)

today's time planning not so smooth. got dinner tonight at my dad's side and ii have to attend a meeting at 430pm. don't know can make it in time for dinner ma. anyway also don't really want to go for dinner cos my boy today book out then my dad never include him. WTH right? thats why ii hate to go over lo. dinner at restaurant so what? cannot add extra seat ar?! so annoyed! >< okies! logging off liaos. looking forward to seeing my boy later! ♥

ii find this interesting, share with all of uu. (credits: Rei)

Simple Truths Newsletter: Dreamer and Doubter

There are many different aspects that live inside of us and two of them I respectfully dubbed the Dreamer and Doubter. When it comes to pursuing our dreams, The Dreamer is often gung ho while the Doubter can provide a laundry list of concerns and issues.

After a speech in Rome, a woman with a beautiful accent asked me to tell her one of my personal dreams. Assuming I'd never see her again, I decided to share a dream I had never spoken out loud, one I had kept such a good secret that even I was beginning to forget it.

"My dream is to spend the summer writing in the Greek Islands," I said all in one breath.

She handed me her card and replied, "I have a villa in Greece. Why don't you come as my guest?"

I was floored and reminded that amazing things happen when we share our dreams. I was elated, or more accurately, part of me was. Here's a peek inside my head. See if this kind of interchange sounds familiar.

Dreamer: I am so excited!
Doubter: Not me. I don't like this at all. It's far away and could be dangerous.

Dreamer: Nonsense. This is my dream handed to me on a silver platter.
Doubter/Realist (they're close cousins): Who is going to run your business while you're away?

Dreamer: My fabulous team whom I completely trust.
Doubter: Well, how's it going to look to your clients that you are out of the country for three months?

Dreamer: I think as a Dream Coach, it's going to look pretty good.

When you are stuck, procrastinating or worrying, chances are your Doubter has taken over. If ignored, it can sabotage your dreams. So how do you deal with it? Turn the volume down a notch and the Doubter simply becomes the Realist, the part that wants to know where the time and money will come from for your venture.

But before you turn down the Doubter, hear from it. It will give you valuable information such as a list of obstacles that you can manage later. Freedom comes as you appreciate its wisdom and insight rather than judging it as the enemy.

If you never deal with your doubt and you meet another Doubter on the road, their doubt will magnify yours. However, if you have worked with your own doubt, next time a Doubter challenges you, by contrast it will be the opportunity to deepen your commitment and conviction to your dream.

This is one of 28 chapters in Marcia Wieder's book, Dreams Are Whispers From The Soul.

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